Love And Other Things I'm Bad At Part 11

When I hung up the phone I felt vaguely insulted. Like it wasn't exciting to hear from me?

Went over to find Wittenauer, but he was wrapped up in a call to some former senator, discussing the needs of higher education.

What about my needs?

10/26.

Mental breakdown. Sampled one of our Brat Blankets and a Knockwurst Knot today. I should have known it was only a matter of time, after all I do have this weakness for hot dogs. Also I'm completely broke and need free protein.

Anyway. They were actually almost yummy. Delicious. Way better than Oscar's cheapo hot dogs.

Sorry, body.

Sorry, PETA.

Sorry, cow somewhere, pig, whatever.

It's just that everyone was talking about how good they were, and they did smell good, and . . . well, there's no excuse, really. And I did pay for it afterward because my stomach went into a panic. So I don't think I should be criticized, especially not in my very own journal, so just back off.

Wow. Meat really brings out the testosterone in me. I'm yelling at a notebook.

Afterward I was hanging out with Thyme in student coffeehouse. She kept talking about how healthy she's felt ever since she purified her body, and I was sitting there listening to rumbling of digesting bratwurst.

Why do I have this capacity to just toss my convictions aside when a situation gets too difficult? I'm really not a credit to the cause. To any cause.

10/27.

Must revise earlier statements about cows. Turns out they are much smarter than I thought. Also somewhat vindictive.

I went for a bike ride this afternoon. There's this bike path on the outskirts of town, so I thought I'd check it out now that weather has warmed up, snow has melted. Also I've been feeling very flabby from eating too much junk food, too much meat, not enough fruit unless you count fruit roll-ups.

So I was riding along-sunny afternoon, rapidly turning cloudy, but trying to ignore that. The path turned so that it was sandwiched between 2 cow pastures. Cows seemed cute to me. Lounging, gnawing on gra.s.s, etc. Then I turned a corner and a cow was standing right in front of me. It had somehow escaped from the pasture.

Decided to ride past; wasn't going to let 1 Holstein get in my way. Kept going. Suddenly 3 cows in front of me. Then 2 more. Farther ahead, cows standing in a line, barring bike path. Giant hole in barbed-wire fence suddenly very obvious.

Cows seeking revenge on me! Bad karma from eating meat yesterday.

"I'm sorry!" I yelled. "I'm really, really sorry. It won't happen again!"

Cows ignored apology. Well, of course they would-it was a bratwurst, not a hamburger. Started coming toward me. Turned and sprinted back past 1 lonely cow that started cantering beside me, hooves clicking on bike path, my heart pounding in my throat. Courtney vs. Cows. Felt like Lance Armstrong as I raced all the way back to campus. But much, much slower.

From now on, no eating meat. Or maybe no riding bike in the country. To get cow karma back, I will only say nice things about milk, cheese, cottage cheese, sour cream, ice cream. All dairy products are bright and beautiful. And dairy cows rule.

Next time I need to at least bring some carrots or hay or whatever it is cows like to eat. But that might make them chase me more. Probably not a good idea.

So to make amends, Thyme and I went to fish fry at Brat Wurstenburger tonight. I'd heard it was a popular Friday-night thing, but didn't realize-the place was packed. Thyme kept asking our server, named Dot, whether the fish had come from polluted waters and whether they were actually fresh. Dot got this little eye twitch as she listened to Thyme, but kept answering her politely, telling her the perch came from lakes nearby, she knew all the fishermen who caught them- "Fisherpeople, you mean," Thyme said.

"I've known them for years, two of them are my sons, and they're named Steve, Eric, John, and Wayne," Dot said curtly.

"She didn't have to be so rude about it," Thyme complained after Dot left. Like Thyme hadn't been as rude as possible herself.

10/28.

Ozone End Zone Rules!

We blew them away at Homecoming.

Thyme unfortunately missed the whole thing because she wasn't feeling well, or so she said. Later on, she wasn't home, so I don't know. Sometimes I think she is afraid of the spotlight. Anyway, not important. What's important is this: we got applause. We're starting to have people who cheer for us, we almost have a following.

It was really cool because Annemarie convinced a friend of hers from the campus radio station (she has her own DJ slot now) to blast music over the field speakers as we dashed through 35-member marching band's lame halftime routine, disrupting everything, drawing attention to the plight of our school being a.s.sociated with, well, plight. Or do I mean blight?

Anyway, the crowd was huge. Several old fogies in plaid pants frowning at us. Several alumni heard reminiscing about life in the sixties. Meanwhile Corny was sprinting around trying to distract Dean S., president, football coach, marching band conductor, etc. Very busy mascot. His cornsilk was falling out all over the place; looked nearly bald at the end.

Just as I was leaving the field, Dean S. caught up with me. "Courtney, I thought you'd given up on all this," he said. "Don't you want to join a-a-team or something? You seem athletic. You could channel all that energy into, say, volleyball, or field hockey-or how about tennis? I'm the a.s.sistant coach, you know."

See, sometimes I think he does have a crush on me. Wants to be around me constantly. Very embarra.s.sing because it looked to other Badicals like I was colluding with the enemy. "Let's agree to agree that I'm no good at tennis," I said, before running off to distribute flyers.

Shouldn't have run. He'll force me to be on the cross-country team now.

After the game we all got together to brainstorm ideas for final football game, 2 weeks from today. Everyone wants to do a dramatic scene, or okay, maybe that's just the people from the drama department who recently joined the group.

"So this would be Shakespeare in the parking lot?" Erik joked.

Looked for Wittenauer to laugh with, then remembered he had to go to various alumni functions, mingle, pose for more photos, pretend he wasn't in on this. Meeting very boring without him or Thyme there.

10/29.

Forget CFC thing. Forget everything! Grant called this morning with the best news. He got me a plane ticket!!! I'm going to see him next weekend!!!

He's been working all these extra hours to save the money. Not telling me about it. And he kept asking me questions about my cla.s.ses, like when my midterms were, and made me mail him a schedule, and all my dumb syllabuses. I thought he was just trying to be involved. Turns out he's been plotting this.

Best boyfriend ever. Confirmed yet again.

Ran across hall to tell Thyme the great news.

"Maybe I can come with you next weekend," Thyme said. "I have got to get out of here."

I smiled a little, hoping she wasn't serious. Don't really want to spend weekend with Grant and Thyme. With Grant and anyone, actually.

10/30.

I've got the worst stomachache. I'm too excited about seeing Grant to do anything but think about seeing Grant. I know this is wrong because I need to get ahead on my schoolwork because I won't do any while I'm home. But instead I spent the afternoon shopping for perfect gift to bring. Ended up in Karl's House of Meat getting badgered by man behind the counter to sample latest cheese crop.

"The thing is, I don't really like cheese," I said. "This is a gift for a friend-"

"You'll love it after you try this!" He carved a giant chunk of something slightly stinky and handed it to me. "Now that's a cheese."

Well, it was either a cheese or a moldy ball of aged b.u.t.ter. Chunk after chunk kept coming over the counter on a wooden board. (Should really not think of chunks right now.) Ate some, stuffed some of it in my pockets, finally ended up buying a gift basket, which includes something called a "Nutted Three-Cheese Log." It's stuffed into our mini-fridge, and I hope Mary Jo won't get mad at me for sabotaging her diet.

10/31.

It is soooooooooo cold. Halloween, Wisconsin-style. You must sprint from house to house to collect hot chocolate instead of candy. Ended up working late (a few more weeks of this and I'll pay back the bank), then went to Halloween party in dorm. No costume for me. Everyone on floor yelling at me for not playing along. I'll probably start another faction war over this.

Mary Jo was in our room all night doing her best to avoid temptation of candy corn and candy in general. She looked completely miserable. Also a bit on the pale side.

"Have you been eating anything except that weird program food?" I asked her.

"No," she said. "And it's not weird!" She slammed down her chemistry book and grabbed the bottle of "Super Energetic Vitamin Boost" that goes with this diet, started shaking pills into her mouth with her shaky hand.

The woman is in desperate need of a good smoothie. She needs fruit and energy boosts. So do I.

11/1.

7 P.M. At my Fun-Times Funders shift. Dying for it to be over so I can go home, write my poli sci paper. Just had very awkward conversation with WW III. He said, "So this weekend, I was thinking we could work on our next protest together. Maybe-"

"Actually, I can't," I said. "I'm going home."

"You are? All the way to Colorado? For a weekend?"

Felt my face turning red. "It's a long weekend. And it's, well, to see my boyfriend," I said. "He got me a ticket, and so . . . I'm going to visit him."

"Oh. I see." He went back to his cubicle.

Am I letting down the cause? But what about my cause: seeing Grant?

10:30 P.M. Here I am with 8 books, 3 legal pads, 4 pens, 43 index cards, 6 completely blank discs-like I'll need more than 1-and 1 computer, and . . . 1 very confused mind.

How am I ever going to finish my paper before I leave for the airport? Oh well. Where there's a will, there's a way.

Sure.

Thyme and I are in dorm lounge. Moved our computers down here.

4:27 A.M. Well, I made my point on the first page and it's followed by 6 pages of beating around the bush. Thyme's is the opposite.

Have to write 3 more pages to make it 10. Chugging iced tea. Trying to stay awake, but I think I got the caffeine-free kind by mistake.

6:24 A.M. Sunrise watching can be fun but in its appropriate time and place. Paper is almost finished. Thyme went to caf to get us donuts and coffee. Like we need coffee. Like we can even hold a cup.

7:30 A.M. Medical alert! I was staggering back to my room from the lounge, needing to print paper and get dressed for cla.s.s. Mary Jo was walking toward me in robe and slippers. But she was weaving a little, as if following a line on the floor only she could see. Then she fainted! She totally keeled over! Her bucket dropped onto the carpet, and horsey shampoo and conditioner splattered on the walls. Waiting for Thyme to wake up Annemarie to borrow her car and then bring car around; taking MJ to campus health.

9:10 A.M. Have been waiting 2 hours for someone to look at Mary Jo. Thyme left to go hand in our papers. a.s.sistant gave Mary Jo a cursory glance and decided she was "non-emergencial," and promised to return. Have been up to the desk 6 times demanding help. Each time, Mary Jo tries to escape but is too weak, can't make it to the exit before I catch her.

Called her parents but got Ed instead. Told him that Mary Jo wasn't feeling well and it might be good if her family visited this weekend.

"Are you going to be there, Courtney?" Ed asked.

"No, that's why I thought you should come by," I said. "Because I have to go home to Denver for the weekend."

"Oh. Well, she'll probably be all right," Ed said. "Once she eats a decent meal."

So we're going to blow off the health center and go to Mary Jo's favorite breakfast place, Koffee Kitchen. My treat.

11/2 DENVER!.

Same pen, different story.

I'm home! I can't believe it. I am actually about to go to sleep in my very own bed in my very own room with my very own psycho dog lying on the floor next to me.

Got in pretty late, so Grant and I could only hang out for an hour before Mom selfishly demanded he leave because it was after midnight. She said she wanted to talk to me. Our talk consisted of "What would you like for breakfast?" and "What are your plans?" and "Are you getting all A's or not?" But at least she did say she's definitely not seeing that chat room guy, or any other Internet guys.

Anyway, big news: Grant has a goatee now. Very weird when I saw him, but he does look even better than before. Typical Grant, he keeps it cut really short and neat. Discovered that I still love him to death even though he devoured the cheese basket I brought him within minutes, like a giant mouse, and didn't bring me anything.

Okay, so he bought the ticket. No problem there.

But not even 1 flower???

Mary Jo's stupid Joe even gave her bouquets. And isn't Grant a better person than that?

Okay. I am not going to spend the weekend thinking about that idiot Joe, or Mary Jo, or anything back at CF. Except maybe to hope that Mary Jo is eating real food.

11/3.

I hate it here. I'm miserable. I wish I were in Wauzataukie.

Now that's a sentence I never thought I'd write.

Maybe I can catch an earlier flight back tomorrow. I could spend the weekend working on our ban-CFC act for next weekend. I am wasting my time here.

Can I really be saying this? Are things that bad? YES.

This was supposed to be a romantic trip. Grant and I were going to spend the weekend in each other's arms. We'd go to all our favorite places, cuddle, snuggle, etc.

So much for having a romantic weekend. I've ruined everything, or Grant's ruined everything, I don't know who's responsible. But tonight we got into the biggest fight we've ever had. (Maybe because we've never fought. Period.) It's because Grandmother Superior has bronchitis and sounds awful. Okay, I know that she has lived with Grant and his folks for the past couple of years since his grandfather died, and he's really close to her and she's really close to him, etc. But does she have to get bronchitis on the one weekend we can see each other?

So tonight he said he had to stay home and keep an eye on her because his parents had a business dinner thing. h.e.l.lo! It's Friday night. I just got here last night, and this morning I had to hang out with my mom while he went to cla.s.ses and then this afternoon he had to work for 4 hours, because he couldn't get anyone to cover that part of his shift.

So then he came down to meet me in Denver, and what does he want us to do? Not go out here. Not go back to Fort Collins so we can hang out in his room and I can meet his roommate and his friends and go to a party there. No. He wants to sit around holding Grandmother Superior's hand! One of us on each side of her! It's only bronchitis, I told him. Even his grandmother told him not to be silly, that he should go out with me.

"You should," I said, trying to ignore her rattling cough. "I mean, Grant, you do see her all the time," I whispered.

"No, I don't," he said. "You don't know, Courtney. I haven't been down here at all lately. And she needs me, okay?" He really sort of snapped at me.

The unflappable Grant was actually very, very stressed out. It made me feel awful but I didn't know how to deal with him. So I came home. What else could I say? But now I feel worse.

11/4.

Sat.u.r.day afternoon, waiting for Grant to come over. Just had lunch with Beth. We spent like 3 hours going over everything and everyone new in our lives. I was afraid I was boring her with too many stories, but she was totally into it.