How To Disappear Completely Part 2

"Yeah, that'd be great."

We sat on that bench for a while talking about the things you do when you first meet someone. I told her all about my struggles with Allison, the ring, her stupid dog, the carnival proposal, and my recently lost job. I could tell she was judging me a bit about the fact that I had no real career. "So then what do you really want to do?"

"I'm not really sure yet."

"Don't you think you should think about it, especially now that you lost your job?"

She had a good point. "Yeah, you're right."

"Well what do you like to do?"

"I like music, writing, and walking around."

"What do you write?"

"Mostly just little stories, but I try to write a lot of different things."

"What about music reviews?"

"I've never thought of that. I guess it would make sense, but I wouldn't know where to start."

"Well, you should figure that out." She smiled with the same expression that I remembered so fondly from the night before.

After our short a.n.a.lysis of my life, I found out she attended MIT and was studying biological engineering. She tried telling me about what that actually meant, but I got lost before we got very far and made a note to myself to look it up. She was in her 3rd year of school and was trying to plan what she may want to do after school. I had never met anyone like her before. She was so completely different than everyone else in my life that I was a little nervous. It felt disorienting, the way it feels when you wake up and it takes a second to realize where you are. She told me all about the relationship she was just in and how it affected her.

She had recently gotten out of a relationship that was very taxing on her life. "He never hit me," she explained, "but I actually lived in fear that he might. For a while I was too scared to even break up with him." She went on a bit more before she stopped suddenly and asked to change the subject. I obliged, feeling weak from just listening to her story.

We chatted for a while and then she said that she had to go to cla.s.s. "I'll walk you back up to the bridge," I said, trying to be a gentleman. On our short walk we made plans to meet up later that night for dinner at the approachably stylish Redline, at 7. Right before we made it to the bridge, she asked, "Why did you wait so long to talk to me after you saw me?" I was dumbfounded. "I saw you and knew you were following me from the moment you ran across the street."

"Oh I just... I'm not very confident sometimes. I didn't want you to think I was following you."

"But you were." She smiled a devilish grin and looked up at me as a strand of her hair tickled her eyelashes before she slowly brushed it away and back behind her ears.

Chapter 5.

When Nicole left, I just stood there watching her walk away for a moment. Nothing creepy, just watching her go. I was trying to take in as much of her as possible before she was gone, even though I knew that I was going to see her again that night. When she was finally out of sight, I turned the other way and started walking home. Basking in her glow, I made it halfway to my apartment before I had a thought that didn't involve her.

I realized then that I had dreamt about her the night before and saw her walk across that bridge just as she did. I made a note to remind myself to ask her what she was listening to. If it was Mayday Parade, I was going to lose it. I hadn't actively thought to walk that way either. I just did it as if my dream slid into my conscious mind and nudged a few synapses to fire and get my feet moving in the right direction. Then I remembered the dream I had about the carnie ma.s.sacre and got so creeped out that I stopped walking and some guy ran into the back of me saying "Hey watch it a.s.shole." If we had been driving, he would have gotten the ticket for following too closely, but somehow I was the a.s.shole here.

I'm not really a huge believer in the paranormal or premonitions or anything like that, but two very detailed dreams ended up coming true and it was enough for me to start to believe, or at least to think about believing, that something unusual was going on here. I decided to make a few more stops before I made my way home, to kill some time. I desperately needed some food and decided to get something new to wear for that night. Eventually I made it home and ran up my stoop while trying to get my mind back on Nicole. I threw my stuff down and plopped into bed. I looked at the clock for some rea.s.surance, but only realized how long I had before dinner. Ugh.

I just sat there twiddling my thumbs on the Internet by checking all my accounts. It always amazed me how many pa.s.swords I had to remember to find out if people wanted to talk to me. Mys.p.a.ce, Facebook, my 3 email addresses, IM. Toss in the lesser used ones like Netflix, Bank of America, anything to do with bills and it's a wonder we can remember anything else but usernames and pa.s.swords. Logging into all of those sites, I got the ever-pleasing result of no messages. None. Not even from Allison. Oh right. Allison. Suddenly it hit me. What the h.e.l.l was I doing? I was still seeing Allison. Really I haven't done anything wrong, I thought. I wasn't totally sure that tonight was a date, though it sure felt like it was going to be one. Where is the line? Is going out to dinner cheating? I decided that later I should drop by Allison's after she got home from work to finally talk to her about things and see what we could come up with. I had put it off long enough and now at least I didn't feel quite so terrible about her rejection. I realized that I could, and possibly already had, move on.

The day had taken a toll on my body, so I decided I needed a shower. As I took my clothes off, I felt oddly insecure as if someone were watching me from somewhere. It was a feeling I hadn't felt since far before I met Allison and I was curious why it had found its way back to me. I stepped in the shower and just stood there while a barrage of little watery fists pummeled my face, letting them have a go at beating all the bad out of me, letting it wash off my skin and down the drain. Let the rats chew on my problems, I thought.

The cleansing power that the shower provided me was always stronger than any priest or reconciliation would ever provide. The worst part of a shower, of course, was the getting out. Leaving that warm womb of watery goo just to go out into the cold cruel world was never easy. That day at least there was some hope. I had a great night planned. Of course there were a few speed b.u.mps on the way to happiness, but at least happiness was actually out there on the horizon. I could just make out the topsail of the ship in the distance.

I rummaged through my closet and found the least offensive pair of "nice" jeans, which happened to be my favorite pair. I hate stereotypes, but I am very much a boy when it comes to laundry. Unless there's a stain or it actually smells bad, what's the point of washing it? Why wash something after one use if you didn't even so much as sweat in it? I get washing the underwear and socks, fine, and normally wear those only once, but with jeans and sweaters, come on. I slid into my new shirt and took a moment to appreciate the craftsmanship and st.i.tching even though I knew it was most likely a programmed machine doing the work. Someone still had to program it and so I saluted the programmer. A few quick product applications to my hair, a few rogue hair plucks, and I was off. I had debated whether or not to get ready for my dinner with Nicole before I went to see Allison, but figured that I might not make it on time the way Allison liked to talk.

On the way to Allison's I tried thinking about what was happening with my life, constructing a timeline in my head and adding footnotes here and there. Was I so defeated by Allison that I so quickly dismissed her? For the first time it occurred to me that maybe it was possible that I was in some way glad that she rejected me. So much for my watery cleansing, I thought, as the cynical side of me raised an eyebrow, as if to say I told you so. "Nothing is ever as easy as it seems," it said and smiled a Grinchy smile.

I'm not prepared for this, I thought, as I rang Allison's doorbell. When I heard the Satan run and try to attack me through the door, it put me fully back in my place. I hand rang the doorbell out of respect, though I had a key, so I just went in after a few knocks as I always didready in my best Kung Fu stance in preparation for battle with the devil dog.

He was nicer than usual and just growled at me as I made my way through the kitchen to Allison's room. She was on the computer instant messaging with a friend. "Awww... that's so great" she said before noticing me and she clapped her hands lightly a few times. "What's so great?" I asked. Allison leapt out of her chair in pure terror before settling down into a frustrated laughter.

"You scared the s.h.i.t out of me." She said as she tried to find her breath again.

"I know I can see it on your chair."

"Stop it, that's gross."

"You said it."

Off to a great start, I thought.

"What's so great on there?"

"Oh. My friend who desperately needs to find a nice guy said that she may have met one."

"Great!" I said trying to sound genuinely excited as I dropped myself on her bed taking count of how many bounces I managed to hit. Three.

"She had some rough times with the last guy that she was with and I was hoping she'd meet someone great soon. What are you doing here? I've been trying to call you."

"Yeah, I know. Sorry about that. I've just been having a really hard time with all of this, you know?"

She did know. I could tell that she wasn't doing so great herself. She looked tired and it made me realize the impact that I actually had on her life. She was worried about me. After a moment of silence I said, "I just needed some time to think about everything. I was pretty devastated when you said no."

"I never actually said no." But even as she said it I could tell she knew what was wrong with what she said. Saying 'can we talk about it?' is pretty much the same thing as saying 'no' and she knew it. "Ok" She continued, "so that's not the best response to a proposal. I guess I just wasn't expecting it and didn't know what else to do."

"You could have just said yes," I said. "But then what fun would that be, right?"

"Josh. I just feel like I have so much to do before I think about getting married. Do you know what I mean?"

"Oh sure, yeah. I totally understand," I retorted in my best sarcastic voice. I extended my body over her bed laying myself back with my hands behind my head imagining that I was on a hammock. What could be wrong with the world when you're on a hammock? Every time I've been in a hammock it was an immensely relaxing experience. I must have looked as if I were trying to calm myself down because Allison asked me "Where did you go?"

"I'm in a hammock on a beach in the Caribbean. I'd appreciate it if you didn't block my sunlight." I must have smiled unusually because she started to tense up.

"Why do you always just block this out?"

"Why do you always force me to try and block things out?" I didn't mean to hurt her, but I could tell by the silence that she felt as if a million tiny men suddenly built a scaled version of the great wall down the center of the room, splitting us apart. I took a moment of silence for the tiny men who died building the wall.

Allison shook her head. I didn't see her, of course, because I was swinging in the breeze of a Caribbean beach, but I could feel her shift her weight as she shook her head. You know what they say about a b.u.t.terfly flapping its wings on the other side of the world? The same applies to a girl shaking her head in disappointment. The damage may be less significantinstead of a hurricane it's heartachebut depending on who you ask, both could be equally negative.

"You don't even realize how hard it was for me to get up the stones to ask you, do you? Let alone the money that I dropped on the G.o.dd.a.m.n ring."

"I never asked for a ring, Josh."

Oh yeah, I thought. If I asked you and didn't have a ring, instead of saying 'maybe', you would have just wondered where's the G.o.dd.a.m.n ring as you accidentally pushed me over the side of the Ferris wheel. The biggest lie a girl will ever tell you is that the size or authenticity of an engagement ring doesn't matter to her. The truth is that the worth of a woman could be defined by her engagement ring. When the future wife of a celebrity or millionaire shows off her ring, she's not showing how wealthy her husband is so much as proving how much she's worth to him. How much would you pay for me to be yours forever? That's a question every woman whispers into her loved one's ear as he sleeps, in hopes of one day proudly showing off the biggest rock to all of her friends.

As if she heard my thoughts she said, "Josh, it was... is a beautiful ring."

"But just not for you, right?" At this point I was cranky and on the verge of wanting a fight.

"I didn't say that one day this wouldn't have been wonderful, but I'm just not ready for this right now."

"So what now, then?"

"I don't know. I'd love to keep things how they were for now until I'm ready to move things forward."

After a dramatic pause I finally said, "I'm just not sure if I can do that."

The words hung in the air like a virus waiting to infect its next victim in order to propagate its species. The sickness finally entered her body, forcing her eyes to spill their reservoir of tears down her face. I realized then that I really didn't want to hurt her. I was still so bruised from the other night that I thought I wanted revenge, but seeing her depleted by my rejection felt bad. It was as if I was the dealer at a blackjack game and she was sitting at my table with nothing but a ten of hearts and a four of spades. She was addicted to the game and stuck in a bad spot with her last chip on the table ashamed of the possibility of going home broke. We sat there, dealer and nearly broke card player for a moment, aware of each other's roles in the game.

"What do you want to do?" she asked as if she really wanted to hear what I had to say.

"I'm pretty hurt." I said truthfully, taking note of how we both responded. "I'm not really sure. Maybe we both need some s.p.a.ce for a bit to figure out what we both need."

"You mean you want to take a break?"

"I can't see myself having any semblance of normalcy around you at this point," I said, adding points to my word-of-the-day usage scoreboard. (Thanks Dictionary.com.) She shot me a look as if I were about to stab her in the chest. "Did you really think that we could just go on as normal?" clearly already knowing the answer.

"I guess I did."

"I just don't think that I can work that way, Allison. I put everything on the line the other night. Everything."

A monsoon started in her eyes. I'd never seen her cry that way before and for a minute my eyes were tempted to commiserate with her, but I convinced them to follow my orders, not hers. I got up from my hammock and made my way back to her to put an arm around her and pat her back. Not two arms for a full hug, just oneI was still too p.i.s.sed to give her the real deal.

For a while we sat there speaking more of our feelings, though everything that really needed to be said was already said. Everything after that point was just talking about our emotions. Nothing could have been changed. Minds were made up, hearts were broken, then mended, feelings were hurt and healed again. The true strength of the human spirit is the resilience that it gets with change. We can adapt to so much and adjust so quickly to our surroundings. Eventually, when I couldn't take any more, I told her that I had to go. It took a few more minutes for me to make it down to the door, complete with the devil dog staring me down as usual. When I opened the door, ready for my escape, she scrounged up what few words she could and said, "So what if I had said yes? Where would we be now?"

"Probably happily planning a wedding," I said as I walked out the door just in time to make it to my date.

Chapter 6.

Igot to the restaurant a few minutes early thanks to the 'T' and the chilly air. People from other parts of the country think that Northeasterners are always rushed, but really we're just cold. Those southern Californians have it easy, and so of course they mill around in the constant perfect seventy degree weather with a soft ocean breeze, walking inland as fast as they would be walking beach-bound. We hate them every second we hear them complain about a day of rain and are dumbfounded at their ignorance of what everyone else endures.

I took a seat at the bar and decided a drink would do me good. "Jack on the rocks please." I said in a grateful voice. "To love," I said quietly to myself raising my gla.s.s to an invisible crowd, though I'm pretty sure the guy next to me raised his gla.s.s as I said it. A world full of broken hearts, I thought. That's all this is. I wondered, as I sipped my drink, if there was anyone above the age of say, 18, in the world who hadn't had their hearts broken at some point. I thought about the statistical probabilities and realized that the percentages favored the broken hearted and I felt my spine curl forward a little into a slump. The only truly universal feeling, I thought. Maybe it's not love that unites the world, but rather it's broken hearts.

I felt a gentle tap on my shoulder and a whisper in my ear. "Hey." My barstool swung around to greet the voice. But it was more than just a voice. It took me a moment to muster up a simple 'hey' back. My G.o.d she looked unbelievable. There must be some secret ritual where they teach girls how to really dress up for something. Girls you'd see at regular times that didn't do much for you would suddenly be G.o.ddesses from a change in makeup, cut of a top, length of a skirt, or curl of a hair. Each girl must have had a private lesson on the art of alluring a boy at some point before the 8th grade. Nicole must have certainly taken diligent notes at her lesson. I forgot everything I learned about talking to girls, but managed enough small talk to not seem like an idiot.

I downed the rest of my drink and we made our way to the hostess, telling her that our party had arrived, and we were shown to our seats. I had been there once before with Allison, though it was something I tried not to think about so as to not ruin any positive feelings. Allison and I had gone there the first week we dated in college. It's one of the few restaurants I've seen that is both romantic and pretty cheap. It became a mainstay for college kids wanting to impress, but not wanting to break the bank. It was where I first learned most of Allison's history: how she was studying to be a physical therapist, the dog that she couldn't wait to move up to Boston when she got out of the dorms, her childhood and family life. It's amazing how much you can find out about a person at one dinner.

Nicole and I were seated at a table in a remote corner of the restaurant that was made for a new couple. The speakers were close enough to be able to recognize the songs, but far enough away that we could speak at a normal volume without strain. The worst place to be with someone you want to learn about is where you have to yell to be heard.

We ordered a bottle of wine, picking a Pinot Grigio that stood out, hoping for the best. I certainly wasn't a huge wine drinker and she said she wasn't really either, but it seemed like the best thing to trysomething cold and refreshingly fruity. After the Jack and a gla.s.s of wine I finally felt like I had loosened up a bit. "How was cla.s.s today?" I asked.

"It was alrightnothing too exciting. How was the rest of your day?"

"About the same," I said with a smile, "until now." I love making girls blush. "Have you been here before?"

"No, but I've always wanted to. A friend of mine told me that I have to try their duck confit."

"Their what?" My face probably asked it better.

"It's a duck leg. See," she pointed across the table at my menu, "they have it as an appetizer or as an entree with risotto."

"You can even order it with the macaroni and cheese."

"I know what I'm getting," she said with a quiet clap of her hands.

"Well I guess I'll have to try it with the risotto, unless you're willing to let me try some of yours."

"No way! Get your own." She said with playful force.

The lingering thoughts of Allison had just about been masked by the time we ordered our entrees.

A quick look around could tell you that this was not the kind of place where meaningless chatter took place. Everyone there was either in love or on the path to it. I wondered if this was too much. It was only two days ago that Allison had rejected me and only an hour since we last spoke having left things in a limbowhere our thoughts and feelings could roam freely like animals liberated from long captivity.

I drifted in and out of the moment, not out of boredom but rather a hopeless longing for something positive to feel. For the most part I just let her talk. The sound of her voice was a refreshing reprieve from what I was used to. When you near the end of a relationship, anything that your partner says can be construed as negative, bringing a gloomy sky over the both of you that can't blow over. Nicole's voice circled me like a coven of witches, casting a spell on me that would last as long as she wished. There was no end to her spell as I watched her lips form words I could hear but didn't pay attention to. It wasn't that I didn't care about what she was saying, but that watching her lips form the words was enough for me. What other meaning or purpose could there be other than the simple beauty of their creation.

By the time our main course arrived, we were on our second bottle of wine and absurdly hungry. "I think it's your turn for a toast." I announced confident in my wording. She sat for a moment rummaging around her head for just the right words to say. I sat patiently awaiting whatever poetry she came up with.

"To Josh, may his life work itself out in a way that allows me to find my place in his story."

I felt my head melt down into my chest. She started to speak as if to apologize, but I gently raised a hand to stop her and said "I could only wish for such a story in my dreams."

Reality TV would have paid handsomely to get a moment like the one we just had on tape. We just stared at each other for a good minute, almost daring each other to be the first to look away. We sat there trapped between worlds we were leaving and worlds we were about to walk into. Nicole had her baggagefrom a trip that lasted too long on a flight that didn't even serve peanuts or soda. I had my own baggage that I hadn't checked at the counter yet. We were both there waiting at the gate for a flight that had been delayed for years and wondered when it might take off.

While we shifted around in our chairs in preparation to finally eat, I stopped looked down at my plate with bewilderment. "What is it?" Nicole asked. I picked up my duck leg as if it were a sword being unsheathed and held it en guarde towards Nicole. After a short hesitation, she did the same and we laughed.

"Well, you certainly have me trying new things," I said as the laughter started to slow.

"Hopefully there will be many new things for us."

The conversation kept going with another bottle of wine as we took turns eating and talking, stopping occasionally here and there for an extra bite or two.

We debated a third bottle of wine or perhaps a tiramisu, but decided to head out into the world as our dessert. The lights of Boston at night were enough to fill any appet.i.te left over after a meal. The check came and went before I even noticed how much the meal was, but I really didn't care. So I lost my job and have no actual income, who cares? A quick, slight bow from the waiter and we were off.