The Saddest Girl In The World Part 9

'Are you all right?' I asked Donna gently.

She shrugged. Paula and Adrian were looking at her with sympathy and concern.

'Let's get home,' I said, and I started the engine.

Donna didn't say anything during the twenty-minute journey home. She sat beside Paula, with her head down and hands clasped tightly together in her lap. When we arrived home and I opened the front door, she went straight up to her bedroom. A minute later I heard a loud bang come from her room, quickly followed by another and another. Telling Adrian to stay with Paula in the lounge, I shot upstairs. Donna was screaming now at the top of her voice; giving a brief knock on her door, I opened it.

She was darting around her bedroom, screaming, and picking up anything and everything that came within reach and hurling it against the walls. 'Donna!' I said loudly. 'Stop that.' She glanced at me but continued screaming and throwing everything that came to hand - the portable CD player, her crayons, books and games, her teddy and the china ornaments she'd started collecting with her pocket money. I stayed by the door, not daring to go further in, in case her anger turned on me. She pulled the sheet off the bed and ripped it, her teeth gritted, her face set hard. 'Donna!' I said again. 'Stop! Donna, now!' She went to the curtains and yanked one down with such force that the rail came out of the wall in a shower of plaster. 'Donna! Stop it! Do you hear me!' My heart was pounding and my mouth was dry.

Suddenly she froze, the screaming stopped, and she dropped to her knees and began sobbing uncontrollably. She was bent forward, clutching her head in her hands and rocking back and forth.

I slowly went in and towards her as her sobbing grew. I knelt beside her, and then tentatively placed my hand on her shoulder. Her head was down and she was rocking and crying. I began lightly rubbing her back. 'It's OK, love,' I soothed. 'I understand. It'll be all right now.' She continued to rock and cry, and I slowly slid my arm around her shoulders. Gradually the sobbing eased. 'Donna, look at me, love,' I said gently and, placing my hands on hers, I slowly lowered them from her face. Her eyes were red and swollen and her breath was coming fast and shallow. 'Everything is all right now.' I drew her to me and she allowed her head to rest on my shoulder.

'I told Dad to take his tablets,' she said between sobs. 'I told him on Monday. Mum doesn't tell him. She's useless. She only thinks about the boys. He needs to take his tablets. It's my fault.' Her body stiffened and she was digging her nails into the palms of her hands.

'Donna, love, I know you told him, but it's not your fault. Your daddy is a grown man. Somehow he will have to find a way to remember to take his tablets. The doctors will help him work it out.'

She gave a dismissive shrug and I felt pretty impotent. I knew from what Edna has said that periods of Mr Bajan not taking his medication had been a pattern of their lives, and with no one at home now to remind him to take them, it was a pattern that was likely to continue. Schizophrenia is a controllable disease, thanks to modern medicine, and it was so sad that Mr Bajan's life and the lives of his children continued to be blighted by something as simple as remembering to swallow some tablets.

'Will I get it, and be like him when I'm older?' Donna said suddenly. She had stopped rocking and turned to look at me.

'No, love. Absolutely not.'

'Mum says it's in his family, and I'll end up as loony as him. She says I already am, and sometimes I think she's right. I think and do weird things.'

'No,' I said firmly again. 'You won't. There's nothing wrong with you, Donna, and there won't be.'

'Mum says I'm a nutter already,' Donna said. 'She says I should be locked up like him.'

I stopped myself from vilifying her mother. 'Donna, that was a very unkind thing for her to say, and it certainly isn't true. Trust me, you are doing fine, and once your dad starts taking his tablets again he will be fine too.'

She seemed to accept this, and I thought that the next time I spoke to Edna I would ask her to reinforce to Donna what I had said. For it is often the case with a medical condition that if you believe you are suffering from it, you can start to imagine the symptoms developing.

'Has that been worrying you?' I asked gently. 'That you might develop the illness your dad has?'

She nodded. 'Mum says I have it, and that's why I'm so odd.'

'And does she say that about Warren and Jason too?'

'No.'

Which I thought was interesting, considering they were supposed to have the same father and therefore the same possible genetic susceptibility.

'Donna, it was a very unkind thing to say, and it certainly isn't true. You are one of the healthiest people I know, and Edna says so too. You have been through so much at home and now you are doing really well.'

'You know Mum didn't want me, Cathy?' she said. 'I was an accident. She tried to get rid of me by poking a knitting needle inside her, but it didn't work.'

I inwardly recoiled, and I wondered if Donna knew exactly what she was saying, but I wasn't about to explain abortion to a ten-year-old. 'That was a cruel thing to say,' I said. 'And I'm pleased it didn't work because otherwise I wouldn't have you here now. I like looking after you and I'm very glad you are living with us.'

She looked at me again, her eyes round and imploring. 'Are you? Are you really?' She was surprised.

'Yes, darling, I am. You are a lovely person and I know you are going to do very well.' I was pleased Donna was finding it easier to talk to me, and I hoped that by talking about her worries and what had happened she would start to find some release. I glanced around at the debris of her trashed bedroom.

'Mum had a hot bath and drank a bottle of gin as well,' Donna added, 'when the knitting needle didn't work. Why did she do that, Cathy?'

I hesitated. Donna clearly knew more than the average ten-year-old, but even so I didn't want to go into the gory details of abortion. 'She was trying to have what's called a termination,' I said. 'But I would like to leave telling you more about that until you are older. It would be easier then. Is that OK?'

She nodded, and then let out a little laugh.

'What is it?' I asked, surprised that anything could be funny in what she had just told me.

'Mum said it didn't work because there wasn't enough hot water. Chelsea had taken it all, so I guess I have to thank her for saving me. And Chelsea doesn't even like me!'

I marvelled at Donna's adult ironic humour. 'Well done Chelsea, I say! Donna, you are a lovely person and whatever happened in the past is gone. Things will be much easier for you now, and that will help you get better at everything.' I put my arms around her and hugged her. She didn't return the hug, but neither did she immediately move away. We sat quietly for some time until she finally eased away.

'I'm tired, Cathy,' she said. 'Can I go to bed? I'll clear up in the morning.'

'Yes, love. Have an early night. And Donna, next time you feel really angry we'll find another way of letting it out. Like hitting a cushion hard, or running round and round the garden. It does help.'

She nodded. 'I'm sorry. I liked my bedroom.'

'OK, love. Now take your nightdress into the bathroom and get washed and changed while I find you a new sheet. The curtains will have to stay as they are for tonight. I'll see if I can fix the rail back on the wall tomorrow.'

'Sorry,' she said again, and taking her nightdress from under her pillow she went through to the bathroom.

I took a clean sheet from the airing cupboard and replaced the old one, which having been ripped in half would be consigned to the rag bag. I collected together all the broken pieces of ornaments and dropped them in the waste-paper basket, which I then put out on the landing ready to take downstairs. I didn't think Donna would use the broken china to self-harm, but I wasn't taking any chances. Although some of her anger had come out I knew there was still a long way to go before she was free of all the hurt, anger and rejection that must still be boiling inside her. I checked there was nothing sharp left in the room, looking under the bed, on the shelves and in the drawers. The portable CD player was miraculously still working, and the crayons and other things could be cleared up tomorrow. I left the curtain hanging off the rail; I'd have to fetch the stepladder from the shed in the morning and see if I could fix the bracket onto the wall with filler.

When Donna returned from the bathroom I tucked her into bed and kissed her goodnight. 'All right now, love?' I asked before I left.

She nodded. 'Night, Cathy. Will you say goodnight to Adrian and Paula for me?'

'Will do, love. Sleep tight.' I came out and closed the door.

I carried the waste-paper basket with the broken china downstairs and tipped the contents into the kitchen bin. I then went into the lounge, where I spent some time talking to, and rea.s.suring, Adrian and Paula that Donna was all right, and so too would her father be now that he was in hospital.

At 8.00 p.m., just as I'd returned downstairs from seeing Adrian and Paula into bed, the phone rang. It was Edna, still at the office in Belfont Road. 'How is she?' she asked, sounding exhausted. I told her about Donna venting her anger on her room, and what she had said about her worries of mental illness, and her mother telling her about terminating the pregnancy. Edna listened in silence, occasionally tutting and sighing in dismay.

'Rita tried to blame Donna tonight for Mr Bajan's behaviour,' Edna said. 'Rita said, "Look what you've done now. It's your fault, you silly cow." I stopped her before she said anything else. I knew Mr Bajan hadn't been taking his medication as soon as he walked into contact. He was speaking on a toy mobile phone - you know, the ones that play ringing noises when you press the b.u.t.tons. He said he was talking to G.o.d, only I don't think G.o.d could have got a word in edgeways over his continuous babble. Warren and Jason carried on playing; they're used to their father's behaviour. Rita and Chelsea told him he was a nutter and silly old fool and laughed at him. Donna was the one who tried to talk to him and look after him. I stopped the contact immediately.'

'How long will he be in hospital?' I asked.

'It's usually about three months before he is stabilised, but he might be discharged sooner.'

'Is there no way he can be reminded to take his medication?'

'Not while he is living with Rita. I am going to see if I can find him a place in sheltered accommodation, because this has been going on for too long now and he's having too many relapses. He lived with his mother for a while and she made sure he took his tablets, but she's away for most of the winter, and Mr Bajan keeps gravitating back to Rita. She doesn't remind him about his pills; she's got her own problems with the drink and drugs. The only one who helped him was Donna, and it's hardly the responsibility of a girl her age.'

'No. That's what I told her.'

Edna sighed. 'Anyway, I'm going home now, Cathy. I haven't had anything to eat all day and I've a report to write for another case which is due in court next week. I've been up until midnight writing reports every night for a week. Was there anything else, Cathy?'

'No. I'll tell Donna I've spoken to you.'

'Thanks. Goodnight, Cathy.'

I said goodnight, and as I went upstairs to check that Donna was asleep I thought how conscientious and hardworking Edna was. It was indicative of the huge workload social workers carried that in order to do her job properly Edna spent her days tending to the needs of her clients and her evenings catching up on the paperwork.

Chapter Eleven.

A Small Achievement

'Why don't you hit people?' Donna asked on Monday morning in the car on the way to school.

'Because it is an a.s.sault on the person; it hurts and makes them afraid of you. Talking is a better way of working out disagreements. It's wrong to hit another person, and certainly very wrong for an adult to hit a child.' I had said similar things to Donna when she'd first arrived and had viewed corporal punishment and physical violence as the norm, but often during car journeys Donna reflected on things and suddenly asked a question unrelated to anything immediate. Adrian and Paula did it too; I think the soporific motion of the car encourages reflection, and indeed my thoughts sometimes wander while I'm driving.

'But what if a child doesn't do as they're told?' Donna said. 'Shouldn't you hit them then?' Again, I had covered this previously, but clearly something was now gelling in Donna's mind.

'No, never. As a parent you have to be very patient and sometimes explain something over and over again. If a child still won't do as they are told, or they are being very naughty, then I find stopping a treat usually works wonders.' I glanced at Adrian in the rear-view mirror: he was sitting so quietly and angelically that he could almost have sprouted wings and a halo. He had recently been on the receiving end of my philosophy, and had lost thirty minutes of television time for continually kicking his football into the flowerbed when I'd asked him to use the goalposts at the bottom of the garden, which were away from the plants.

'My mum hit me,' Donna said, a short while later.

'Yes, I know, love.'

'So did Chelsea, Warren and Jason.'

'Yes, you told me, and it was very wrong of them.'

'Mum didn't hit Warren and Jason much - only when they got on her nerves when she'd been drinking. And when they wouldn't go into her bed.'

I glanced in the rear-view mirror again, this time at Donna. She was sitting back in her seat and gazing through the side window. 'What do you mean, she hit them when they wouldn't go into her bed?'

'Mum liked them to go into her bed sometimes when Dad wasn't there, but they didn't want to.'

'What? To give them a cuddle, you mean?'

I saw Donna shrug. 'She didn't hit them much but she made them go into her bed when they were naughty.' I wasn't sure what Donna was saying. Many children go into their parents' bed for a cuddle but this sounded as if it had been a punishment for the boys.

'I don't understand, Donna. Can you explain?' She shrugged again. I had stopped at a set of traffic lights and I briefly turned to look at her. 'Why did they have to go into her bed when they had been naughty? Didn't they like having a cuddle in bed?'

'I don't know,' she said. 'I was never allowed in. But if they were naughty Mum said, "You'll go into my bed for that." And when they came out sometimes they were crying.'

'Did she hit them?'

'I don't know. I had to stay downstairs.'

I put the car into gear as the lights changed and I pulled away. 'And Warren and Jason didn't tell you what had happened in your mother's bedroom?'

'Mum told them not to tell anyone. She said if they did it would be all the worse for them next time.'

I tried to concentrate on the traffic, at the same time listening to what Donna was telling me. I didn't like what I was hearing, and I was feeling decidedly uneasy. Whatever had gone on when Rita had summoned Warren and Jason to her bedroom certainly didn't sound like a family cuddle. I needed to try to find out more so that I could inform Edna; I would also have to write all this in my log when I got home.

'I see,' I said, thoughtfully. 'How often were the boys made to go into your mother's bedroom?'

'When Dad wasn't there,' Donna said. 'I guess about once a week.' Adrian and Paula were gazing out of the windows, blissfully unaware of any sinister undertones in what Donna was saying. 'They had to go to the toilet when they came out,' she added. 'Sometimes Jason had wet himself.' From what, I wondered? Fear?

'And your brothers didn't ever say what had happened?'

'No. Warren said it was better to be hit with a coat hanger like Mum did to me than go into Mum's bed.'

I braked as the car in front slowed. Good grief, I thought, that's definitely not a cuddle. 'And he never told you why?'

'No. Mum said they mustn't or else.'

'OK, love, thank you for telling me. I'll tell Edna. It doesn't sound very nice to me.'

'No, you can't tell Edna!' Donna said, her usual flat and emotionless voice rising. 'Mum will be angry, and we'll all be in for it. I'll get another beating.'

'No you won't,' I said firmly. 'You are not at home now, and neither are your brothers. And it's important that Edna knows that Warren and Jason were upset because she can make sure it doesn't happen again.'

'Oh yes,' Donna said, and I could hear the relief in her voice. 'I'd forgotten that. She can't be angry with me at contact because Edna stops her.'

'That's right, love. You see, I told you life would get better.' And as I glanced in the rear-view mirror I saw a brief smile of relief and contentment flicker across her face.

Having seen Donna into school, I took Adrian and Paula to their school, and as soon as I arrived home I wrote up my log notes, including what Donna had said, as near verbatim as possible. At this stage it was impossible to know the significance of what she had told me, or its relevance in the light of what might come out in the future. The detailed log notes foster carers have to keep are sometimes requested by the judge for the final court hearing, if he feels their content is pertinent to the case. Although Donna hadn't witnessed first hand what had happened in her mother's bedroom, and the boys hadn't told her, because of Rita's threats, Donna had said enough to leave me with a heavy feeling of unease. Clearly she was starting to reflect on the life she had led with her mother and the one she now led with me - that is, in a normal family - and she was beginning to draw conclusions and recognise the things that hadn't been right at home. Donna, like many children who come into care for similar reasons, had a.s.sumed the neglect and abuse she'd suffered were the norm. It was taking time for her to realise that the life she'd led wasn't normal and some things were clearly bad. It never ceases to amaze me what some children believe is acceptable simply because they have grown up with it, and have never known anything different. One girl of five I looked after thought it was perfectly normal to be tied by the legs and arms to the bed and left for a day and night without food or water as a punishment for bad behaviour.

Although I would be seeing Edna briefly before and after contact the following day, I didn't want to discuss what Donna had told me in front of her, so once I'd finished writing up my notes I telephoned Edna. She wasn't in the office; her colleague said she was on a home visit, and I left a message with her asking if Edna could phone me when she returned. What Donna had said played on my mind as I tidied up the living room, vacuumed the carpets and then went outside to do a spot of gardening. It was a fresh autumn day, and as I pruned the bushes, which had become unruly during the summer, I had a growing feeling of disquiet. I thought of Adrian and Paula, who had climbed into my bed at the weekend for a cuddle when they were younger; Paula still did if she woke early. I remembered my brother and me clambering into my parents' bed, and I thought how far removed that was from what Donna had told me about Warren and Jason, who had been made to go to their mother's bed as a punishment and had come out crying and in need of the toilet. In most families the parents' bed is a safe and inviting place for a young child to spend a leisurely hour on a Sunday morning, but it sounded far from a safe place to be at Donna's house.

I had just come in from the garden at 11.30 a.m. when the phone rang, and it was Edna, returning my call.

'h.e.l.lo, Cathy. Is everything all right?' she asked as she always did if I phoned her.

'Donna is fine,' I rea.s.sured her. 'And this may be something or nothing, but I think you should know what she told me this morning. If you could just hang on a moment I'll fetch my notes so that I can tell you exactly what she said.'

'Yes of course, Cathy. Go ahead.'

I left the phone in the lounge and went through to the front room, where I took my log notes from the drawer of my desk. I returned to the phone, and having explained to Edna that we had been in the car going to school when the conversation took place, I read out my notes. Edna was silent as I finished; then she said, 'I shall speak to the boys after school today, Cathy. I'll phone Mary and Ray and tell them I'm coming. The boys obviously haven't said anything to Mary and Ray, but they wouldn't if they'd been scared into secrecy. I don't like what I'm hearing, Cathy. I know Rita only had eyes for the boys, but if Donna is telling the truth it sounds as if there might be more to it. I've never known Donna lie before, but do you think she is telling the truth? Or could she be trying to get Warren and Jason and Rita into trouble - getting her own back?'