The Golden Link of Friendship Part 4

He who has a thousand friends has not a friend to spare, But he who has one enemy will meet him everywhere.

_Oriental Proverb_

Nor scour the seas, nor sift mankind, A poet or a friend to find; Behold, he watches at the door, Behold his shadow on the floor.

_Emerson_

A friend who will not despise us for our weakness, nor disown us for our sinfulness, nor tire of us for being troublesome, nor scoff at us for our sensibility, but who will patiently hear our tale, fully understand our regret, tenderly recognise our stumbling-blocks, and be honest enough to tell us the truth, cost us what it may--oh, do you not see what a real help he might be to us.

_Bishop Thorold_

A friend Welded into our life is more to us Than twice five thousand kinsmen, one in blood.

_Euripides_

I used to think that friendship meant happiness: I have learnt that it means discipline.

_Anna R. Brown_

Dear is my friend--yet from my foe, as from my friend comes good: My friend shows what I can do, and my foe what I should.

_Schiller_

We can live without a brother, but not without a friend.

_German Proverb_

Love is flower-like; Friendship is like a sheltering tree.

_Coleridge_

You shall perceive how you mistake my fortunes; I am wealthy in my friends.

_Shakespeare_

A faithful friend is the medicine of life.

_Ecclesiasticus_

"I know and esteem you, and feel that your nature is n.o.ble, Lifting mine up to a higher, a more ethereal level, Therefore I value your friendship."

_Longfellow_

Disinterestedness of Friendship

In friendship, there is no commerce or business depending on the same, but itself.

_Montaigne_

You must therefore love me, myself, and not my circ.u.mstances, if we are to be real friends.

_Cicero_

I can never think of promoting my convenience at the expense of a friend's interest and inclination.

_George Washington_

There is possible to-day, as ever, a generous friendship which forgets self.... The miracle of friendship has been too often enacted on this dull earth of ours to suffer us to doubt either its possibility or its wondrous beauty.

_Hugh Black_

Friendship is like a debt of honour; the moment it is talked of, it loses its real name and a.s.sumes the more ungrateful form of obligation.

_Goldsmith_

Have friends, not for the sake of receiving, but of giving.

_Joseph Roux_

Amongst true friends there is no fear of losing anything.

_Jeremy Taylor_

When men are friends, there is no need of justice; but when they are just, they still need friendship.

_Aristotle_

Better be a nettle in the side of your friend, than his echo. The condition which high friendship demands is ability to do without it.

To be capable of that high office requires great and sublime parts.

There must be very two before there can be very one.

_Emerson_

No friendship can excuse a sin.