Please Be More Serious Chapter 38

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hengqing wanted very much to tell her how he felt, but this was a serious matter and this wasn’t the right place and now wasn’t the right time. He needed to be somewhere he could tell her slowly. But he had guest and they were discussing business, they could not stay in the kitchen too long.

He couldn’t just say I am nine years older than you but I will be good to you, will you be my girlfriend, and then rush over to the living room to talk business.

No not good. It can’t be like this.

He must also let Yin Ting think about things. He did think she might like him, however, girls are more restrained (Zuben: LOL!) , and they needed time for to carefully consider her options. Then they need to talk about their feelings and if things were equal, then discuss their future relationship. If Ying Ting did not like him, he also wanted to know what the issue was.

Therefore, this moment, this time and place, would not be good

So despite the words on the tip of his tongue, he asked her instead, ‘Can I see you tomorrow? I have something to tell you.’

Yin Ting gawked, what is this?! He was slamming on the brakes unexpectedly.

‘Sure,’ but why wait till tomorrow? Was it going to be formal? That would be terrible. Now was the right time, he tells her he likes her, she replies with “Yes” and they go off and have tea with the others happily, no? (Zuben: Do you know they person you want to date at all? You call him ‘Please be more serious’!)

He wants to do this tomorrow?

‘What do you want to talk about?’ Yin Ting not quite getting it yet, asked,

Zhengqing choked, ‘I will tell you properly tomorrow.’

Fine, tomorrow then. Yin ting nodded. For tonight, she was going to have to do some yoga meditation to quell her heart. She was afraid she would not be able to wait, she would grab Zhengqing’s shoulders and shake him, shouting, “Tell me now! Tell me now!”

Yin Ting mentally shook the cartoonish imagination out of her head, and asked politely, “What time would be convenient?’

‘Late morning? We can have lunch together.’

For lunch, he’ll choose a romantic restaurant. Zhengqing began to make plans; he would also buy a small gift, Yin Ting should like that.

‘Sounds good,’ Yin Ting agreed. She would choose a quiet restaurant with good atmosphere and private rooms.

‘I’ll come and get you.’

‘Okay,’ Yin Ting agreed, ‘Call me when you’re on your way.’

‘Alright,’

The settled on their decision, so they took the tea out to the other two.

The rest of the evening did not involve Yin Ting much, and she barely understood what they were saying anyway. Huizhu and Zhengqing did not introduce her as an investor but as Zhengqing’s friend. She knew it was to protect her so she didn’t quibble, but she thought Wu Fei was trustworthy.

Wu Fei finally noticed Yin Ting observing him, it made him somewhat uncomfortable, and she realised Zhengqing was watching the two of them.

But sitting around doing nothing was too stuffy, with Zhengqing keeping her from observing Wu Fei. So she went to play with Miao Dada.

As she played with the cat, she realised that Zhengqing made the right decision not to discuss them today. Since lunch time, they’d been talking about Huizhu’s business and making plans. Huizhu was taking advantage of Zhengqing’s availability, using his expertise. Ying Ting's duties had been to help order take out, and serve drinks.

Wu Fei seemed to be a decisive person. Once he’d heard about Huizhi’s company, he’d resigned from his current job. Once things are finalised, he’d be able to help Huizhi full time.

Later, Zhengqing and Yin Ting were washing the dishes together, ‘You can tell Wu Fei has been dying to leave his company. See how quickly he volunteered. He definitely liked Zhu-jie.’

What she really wanted to say was, ‘Don’t take people at face value, you need to observe more.’ But she decided to be restrained.

Zhengqing was thinking, does Yin Ting appreciate this kind of thing? Maybe, he should embrace a more positive att.i.tude. (Zuben shrugs: Don’t ask me what she’s appreciating.)

Zhengqing drove Yin Ting home. He did not say much, but did ask her to invest in Huizhu’s company. In Yin Ting’s heart, Zhengqing was her negotiator. He and Huizhu had already discussed the a.s.sessment of feasibility to help Yin Ting know about the conditions, and the budget and so on.

‘When its time, I will come with you when we speak to your accountants.’

‘Good,’ she replied.

‘The contract between you and Huizhu will be finalised by me. I will make sure the terms are beneficial to you both.’

‘Good.’ Yin Ting was really happy; it was so nice to have a talent like him helping her. It made her feel powerful.

They had reached her house, but the both of them were reluctant to part.

But there was tomorrow, and they would sort it out then.

On his way back home, Zhengqing wanted to buy the gift but the malls were closed.

When he got back home, Zhengqing sat at his desk, he had decided to outline a plan for tomorrow’s confession; his working and any countermeasures. (Zuben: You’re going to be disappointed this guy.)

He took out a notebook to write his thoughts.

First of all, he needed to talk about his feelings. A girl like Yin Ting was big on feelings, and according to her doesn’t really need anything from the man aside from his love.

So number one, the most important thing; I like you. She has said that she didn’t think it was inappropriate and if the feelings are mutual they can adjust to suit each other. And if they don’t both like each other, then everything else is useless. Therefore, liking is most important. I like you.

Number two; his economic status: He has a house with five years left on mortgage; he has a car not on loan. No other debts. He gets large bonuses at the end of each year, and had large savings. 

Although he cannot compare to her or her family, he has enough that they can live a life of comfort.

Number three; family: His parents are dead, he was an orphan. His only close family was his paternal aunt in his home town, although he sent money to her, he doesn’t go back often. So there would be no problems with in-laws.

As he wrote, Zhengqing pondered, what would she care about and be averse to? His age for one; he was nine years older that her. But his age is not the problem, it any health issues in the future.

Number four; his age: He was nine years older than her. This distance in age might hurt his wife. (Zuben: How?) But he was healthy, he exercised regularly, he ate well, kept alcohol to a minimum and did not smoke (Zuben: Can’t dance either!). His report from his yearly medical showed he was in good health, so he wasn’t going to leave her too early.

This could be seen as planning for the future, he hoped he didn’t seem too pushy and eager.

Fifth point; his working conditions: He was Yong Kai’s vice president. According to how things were going in Yong Kai, and his interpersonal relationships, his position was currently long-term. He was stable. (Zuben: Why didn’t I know he was the VP? Do I need to read this again? Pre chapter 20 Zhengqing is insufferable and prejudiced.)

Sixth point; personality: She knew he was a very serious person but he wasn’t old-fashioned or boring. Though, their interests may differ, he was very patient and would like to know more about Yin Ting’s interests and hopes she would be willing to understand him and his interests.

Zhengqing thought more about what Yin Ting would ask.

What did he like about her? One: He liked her looks; she was very beautiful. And when she laughed she made his heart squeeze. Two: He liked her personality. She was sweet and he was at ease with her. Even when she was quiet she was till full of vitality and when he was near her, he was happy. Three: She was a good person; she was good to children and animals. And four: she was intelligent (Zuben: That’s number four?!), and her chicken soup was rather interesting. Five:…

Was four reasons he liked her too small? Yin Ting was a romantic, she would like an abundance of praise. But what else? Zhengqing could not think of anything (Zuben: brave and witty!), so on five, he wrote think of more things.

And then she might reply with what she likes about him.

Eight: How long would he liked her? (Zuben: Who freaking knows. This s.h.i.t don’t come with warranties or guarantees)  There are two conditions to this; first, she liked him too. Second; they work together on their relationship. If these conditions are met, they should last a long time.

After these, Zhengqing could not think of anymore possible scenarios to answer, he felt that if he was a woman, he would be a.s.sured with his answers to all these questions (Zuben: Alas, you’re not a woman, and you’re a man with hinky EQ!). With feelings being clear, he had confidence in Yin Ting’s att.i.tude towards him.

Ninth: Think of other points.

He carefully read through his notes, felt that it was appropriate. He would read it again tomorrow, and take it with him (Zuben: Don’t!) When he could not think of an answer her would consult his notebook. (Zuben -.-‘ : Cheat sheet)

He was satisfied with his work, so he went to bathe and prepare for bed.

As Zhengqing fell asleep, he suddenly thought of more points.

Ninth: Housework. They can share the ch.o.r.es.  If they were both too busy, they would get a house keeper.

Tenth: Children. At least one. We can talk about more. (Zuben: There’s a runaway horse, it’s name is Zhengqing! Someone la.s.so the poor thing before he breaks his heart.)

He felt at peace, he closed the notebook and then he thought of another thing; eleven: agree to deal with property held before marriage. (Zuben: Ooh? Whose property? Hers or yours?)

He sat at the table some more, thinking. But nothing came to mind, so he went back to bed.

Tomorrow must be done properly.

Zuben: Zhengqing is a dork. 

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