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Brown, B. (2010). The gifts of imperfection: Letting go of who we think we should be and embracing who we are. Center City, MN: Hazelden.

Brown, B. (2010). Shame resilience theory. In S. P. Robbins, P. Chatterjee, and E. R. Canda (Eds.), Contemporary human behavior theory: A critical perspective for social work, rev. ed. Boston: Allyn and Bacon.

p. 110 The Velveteen Rabbit: Williams, Margery (1922). The velveteen rabbit. New York: Doubleday.

CHAPTER 4.

THE VULNERABILITY ARMORY.

p. 131 Dr. Kristen Neff: Neff, K. (2011). Self-compa.s.sion: Stop beating yourself up and leave insecurity behind. New York: William Morrow.

Neff, K. (2003). Self-compa.s.sion: An alternative conceptualization of a healthy att.i.tude toward oneself. Self and Ident.i.ty, 2: 85101.

Neff, K. (2003). The development and validation of a scale to measure self-compa.s.sion, Self and Ident.i.ty, 2: 22350.

p. 133 Gretchen Rubin: http://www.gretchenrubin.com/ Rubin, G. (2012). Happier at home: Kiss more, jump more, abandon a project, read Samuel Johnson, and my other experiments in the practice of everyday life. New York: Crown Archetype.

Rubin, G. (2009). The happiness project: Or, why I spent a year trying to sing in the morning, clean my closets, fight right, read Aristotle, and generally have more fun. New York: Harper.

p. 133 Andrea Scher: http://www.superherojournal.com/ and http://www.superherophoto.com/ p. 135 Nicholas Wilton: http://nicholaswiltonpaintings.com/ and http://www.artplaneworkshop.com/ p. 137 Leonard Cohen: "Anthem," The Future, 1992, Columbia Records.

p. 138 The Centers for Disease Control: Morbidity and Mortality Weekly Report (MMWR), November 2011: Vital Signs: Overdoses of Prescription Opioid Pain RelieversUnited States, 19992008.

p. 138 Even more alarming: Stutman, Robert. 2011 lecture at The UP Experience. This video can be viewed here: http://www.thestutmangroup.com/media.html#video p. 140 Jean Baker Miller and Irene Stiver: Miller, J. B., and Stiver, I. P. (1997). The healing connection: How women form relationships in both therapy and in life. Boston: Beacon Press.

p. 142 In Sir Ken Robinson's wonderful 2010 TED talk: http://www.ted.com/talks/lang/en/sir_ken_robinson_bring_on_the_revolution.html p. 146 Jennifer Louden: http://jenniferlouden.com/ Louden, J. (2007). The life organizer: A woman's guide to a mindful year. Novato, CA: New World Library.

p. 147 The Houston Chronicle: Brown, B. (July 25, 2009). Time to get off the phone [op-ed]. Houston Chronicle, p. B7.

p. 152 My dissertation: Brown, C. B. (2002). Acompanar: A grounded theory of developing, maintaining and a.s.sessing relevance in professional helping. Dissertation Abstracts International, 63(02). (UMI No. 3041999).

p. 153 The statistics on post-traumatic-stress-related: Parrish, K. (2011), Battaglia calls reducing suicides a top priority. American Forces Press Service. US Department of Defense. Harrell, M., and Bergla.s.s, N. (2011). Losing the battle: The challenge of military suicide. Center for New American Security Policy Brief.

p. 154 Craig Bryan, a University of Texas psychologist: Thompson, M. (April 13, 2010). Is the army losing its war on suicide? Time magazine.

p. 154 The American Bar a.s.sociation: Weiss, D. C. (2009). Perfectionism, "psychic battering" among reasons for lawyer depression. American Bar a.s.sociation Journal.

p. 156 Team Red, White and Blue: http://www.teamrwb.org/ p. 164 The In-Laws: The In-Laws (1979). Warner Bros. Pictures.

p. 171 Almost Famous: Almost Famous (2000). DreamWorks Studios.

p. 171 Scott Stratten: http://www.unmarketing.com/ Stratten, S. (2010). Unmarketing: Stop marketing. Start engaging. Hoboken: Wiley.

CHAPTER 5.

MIND THE GAP: CULTIVATING CHANGE.

AND CLOSING THE DISENGAGEMENT DIVIDE.

p. 174 Terrence Deal and Allan Kennedy: Deal, T. and Kennedy, A. (2000). Corporate cultures. The rites and rituals of corporate life. New York: Perseus.

CHAPTER 6.

DISRUPTIVE ENGAGEMENT: DARING TO REHUMANIZE EDUCATION AND WORK.

p. 188 Sir Ken Robinson speaks: Robinson, K. (2011). Second Edition. Out of our minds: Learning to be creative. Bloomington, MN: Capstone Publishing.

p. 190 The Workplace Bullying Inst.i.tute: http://www.workplacebullying.org/wbiresearch/2010-wbi-national-survey/ p. 190 ...bullied at work: Deschenaux, J. (2007). Experts: Anti-bullying policies increase productivity. Retrieved from http://www.shrm.org/LegalIssues/EmploymentLaw p. 194 Bill Gates wrote this in a New York Times op-ed: Gates, B. (February 22, 2012). Shame is not the solution [op-ed]. The New York Times.

p. 195 Shame researchers June Tangney and Ronda Dearing explain: Tangney, J. P., and Dearing, R. (2002). Shame and guilt. New York: Guilford.

p. 198 Writers like bell hooks and Paulo Freire: Freire, P. (1970). Pedagogy of the oppressed. New York: Continuum.

hooks, b. (1994). Teaching to transgress: Education as the price of freedom. New York: Routledge.

p. 199 Dennis Saleebey: Saleebey, D. (1996). The strengths perspective in social work practice: Extensions and cautions. Social Work, 41, 3: 296306.

p. 209 In a video interview with CNN/Money: http://management.fortune.cnn.com/2012/03/16/lululemon-christine-day. Retrieved March 2012.

p. 211 Tribes: G.o.din, S. (2008). Tribes: We need you to lead us. New York: Portfolio.

CHAPTER 7.

WHOLEHEARTED PARENTING: DARING TO BE THE ADULTS WE WANT OUR CHILDREN TO BE.

p. 223 One of the very best pieces of parenting advice: The Oprah Winfrey Show. Harpo Studios. May 26, 2000.

p. 239 C. R. Snyder's research on hope: Snyder, C. R. (2003). Psychology of hope: You can get there from here, paperback ed. New York: Free Press.

Snyder, C R., Lehman, Kenneth A., Kluck, Ben, and Monsson, Yngve. (2006). Hope for rehabilitation and vice versa." Rehabilitation Psychology, 51, 2: 89112.

Snyder, C. R. (2002). Hope theory: Rainbows in the mind." Psychological Inquiry, 13, 4: 24975.

APPENDIX.

TRUST IN EMERGENCE: GROUNDED THEORY.

AND MY RESEARCH PROCESS.

p. 252 Letting go of your own interests: Glaser, B., and Strauss, A. (1967). The discovery of grounded theory. Chicago: Aldine.

Glaser, B. (1978). Theoretical sensitivity: Advances in the methodology of grounded theory. Mill Valley, CA: Sociological Press.

Glaser, B. (1992). Basics of grounded theory: Emergence versus forming. Mill Valley, CA: Sociological Press.

Glaser, B. (1998). Doing grounded theory: Issues and discussions. Mill Valley, CA: Sociological Press.

Glaser, B. (2001). The grounded theory perspective: Conceptualization contrasted with description. Mill Valley, CA: Sociological Press.

p. 252 Behavioral researcher Fred Kerlinger defines theory: Kerlinger, Fred N. (1973). Foundations of behavioral research. 2nd edition. New York: Holt, Rinehart and Winston.

p. 253 After developing a theory on shame resilience: Brown, 2004, 2005, 2009, 2010.

p. 255 Originally developed by Glaser and Strauss: Glaser, B., and Strauss, A. (1967). The discovery of grounded theory. Chicago: Aldine.

p. 255 Refined by Glaser: Glaser, 1978, 1992, 1998, 2001.

p. 255 When using theoretical sampling: Glaser, 1978.

p. 255 One important tenet of grounded theory: Glaser, 1978, 1998, 2001.

p. 256 A basic tenet of grounded theory is "all is data": Glaser, 1998.

p. 257 Adjusted conversational interviewing: Glaser, 1978, 1998.

p. 258 Grounded theory researchers are required: Glaser, 1978, 1998, 2001.

p. 258 ...theory is generated from the data: Glaser, 1978, 1998, 2001.

p. 259 According to Glaser: Glaser, 1998.

p. 259 ...keeping an existing theory intact: Glaser, 1998.

p. 259 ...allow the core problems and processes to emerge: Glaser, 1992; Glaser, 1998.

p. 259 Work the core of what is going on: Glaser, 1998.

p. 260 ...the former must be constantly modified: Glaser, 1978.